Breakups are one of the harsh and worst reality of life , it happens without your intentions or sometime with lil bit your own intentions. Breakup sometime changes many life’s because before breakup you were look like an presentable and people loving person but after that you mostly change your attitude , which is not good for you neither for your relatives or loved ones . Breakup hurts both male and female . It is natural in human being that it is not easily to forgot any one who is special for you who worth more in your life , but things happened in life change everything around you but breakup is not the end of life . It just an start of your new life with some different thinking and view of life so lets take a detail look below on 10 Things To Do After A Breakup, these things will help you to again live happy and loveable life .
10) Don’t let it ruin your life
your love is not with you at this time and that person may be never again enter in your life it does not mean that you will ruin your life, Just move one step forward and start your life with you busy routine work it will help you to forget about that harsh accident happened in your life. Wait for the perfect match someone , your real love is waiting for you and will one day fulfil your wishes so don’t be sad.
9) Sleep more then your routine life
After breakup generally we are not in that condition to communicate with our friends and fellows , because at that time we are in our worst mood . If we sit at one place work less many thinkings will arrive in our mind relates to break up . So the better condition is that we should sleep more in that days , so that our mind can relax more and help us to forget that hurting period.
8) Listen to angry/bitter songs
When we were in love we were interested in romantic novels, romantic songs and romantic movies , but after breakup we should change our likings for small period of time , Just listen angry , bitter and that kind of song that will took you away from that love in which you were involved , There is difference in sad and angry song,s so kindly listen angry songs , sad songs will never allow you to forget your past .
7) Read your partner’s social life like Facebook / Twitter
Check your Facebook and twitter profile, so that you will know that your partner is still in your friend list or he kicked you out from his friend list if is is not yet happened is means their is something in your partner’s heart for you or may be he want to hurt you by showing his face again and again but still ignoring you .
6) Sicken your friends
One positive point of breakup is that all your those friends who were moved away from you due to your relationship , will came back to you and provide you some good feelings that they are still here for you , if they are your real friends they will not leave you at this period of life.
5) Plan Outing With Friends
Don’t be bound at one place just make calls to your friends and plan outing with them . This will fresh your mind and you will enjoy the beauty of roads . Freshness of mind is the main necessary thing for life is to live happy .
4) Stay In Contacts With His/Her Relatives
If your partner did wrong with you and you want to stay away from him/her then do it but just notice if his parents were good with you and still loves you then you should remain contact with them, not too much but show your response to them by writing letter to them in which you ask about their condition . whether they are happy , enjoying life so that whenever in future you found success you will slap on your ex to show them you are much happy without him/ her .
3) Hang out with your mum and dad
After losing your partner you will know the feeling that how much you are alone but that was just for few time period. You have the best relation still in your life that is your mum and dad, so start hanging out with them they will also feel happy because you ignore them before many time un intentionally or intentionally due to your partner but its a time to recover your relation with your parents so make them laugh and laugh too .
2) Flush Every Thing Associated With Your Partner
This is the most difficult task i am saying to you to do after break up , hope you will fell comfort after doing this . Just collect all the presents , things whatever he gave to you just collect all , put on flush and on the null . If someone is not still loving us or not in our life then we should not allow his things to hurt us . If you don’t want to do this then it means you don;t want to grow for your future life . Feel angry about what happened and do this now .
1) Treat yourself
Now it’s a time to think about you , no boyfriend, no girlfriend just enjoy your life . Enjoy by buying something for yourself like shoes, dresses, new car whatever you want to buy , you are now get rid of buying gifts for your ex. So life is know waiting for you enjoy the present , predict happy future and just forget about the past . Soon you will met you real and that match that just born for you :0